"and We have created you in pairs"
Al Qur'an 78:8
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I try my level best to maintain good relations with my mother-in-law and my sisters-in-law but on the other hand these two present my mistakes after magnifying and exaggerating my small errors before my husband trying to prove that I have committed big sins My husband instead of dealing with them advises me to remain patient. Despite being patient I’m suffering from tension and ps...
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My wife doesn’t want to have children right now or even in the coming year. She is passionate to work in her profession. However, as everyone aspires to be father, I also want to be a father. My wife is a good person but cries that I am putting pressure on her and I don’t want to see her crying as well. I don't know how to reach a common ground or handle this issue smoothly....
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Why are the Ten days of Dhul Hijjah most valued by Allah and what should we do to uphold the values of these sacred days?  
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I received a proposal through a relative and we were allowed to know each other. After knowing, I approved of this guy to get married to as his character pleased me. When my family started further enquiring they found his income was not comfortable to them and they declared that he wouldn't be able to keep me happy. And this has disturbed me really. I mean I found all that I needed, Alha...
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When is it necessary to perform ruqyah on children, and how should it be done?
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after reading this, you will not ignore elderly people

Allah is the one who created you from weakness, then made after weakness strength, then made after strength weakness and white hair. He creates what He wills, and He is the Knowing, the Competent (Ar-Rum, verse 54)

 

Growing old is not an illness that can be treated but its a phase of life that cannot be avoided

A person getting old is a part of destiny that Allah has written for him. If you notice the sequence of growth as mentioned in the above verse, first come weakness as a new born baby, then grown up strong man and then once again a person becomes a weak old man. An old person turns like a newborn baby as he is totally dependent upon others for his walking and moving. He loses  his teeth and like a baby he cannot chew. It is not possible for any person to save himself from old age. Once you are out of the womb of your mother, nothing can stop you from aging. One may hide his age by dying hair and applying cosmetics but can’t stop himself from aging.

Elders are supposed to be honored, respected, helped and given first preferences.