I am a very logical and brutally honest individual. What’s in my heart is exactly what comes out of my mouth. I am extremely transparent, blunt, and straightforward—what you see is what you get. I have a strong sense of justice and cannot tolerate injustice, whether it's directed at me or at a complete stranger. I will always stand up for the weak and the oppressed. My role model is Umar ibn Al-Khattab (RA), because I share many of his personality traits. I am fiercely loyal—first and foremost to Allah (God), and then to those who have entrusted me with their amanah (trust). Though I live in a modern body, I carry an ancient soul. I am a traditional Muslim who does not subscribe to modernist ideologies or lifestyles such as Secularism, Liberalism, or Feminism. I believe these trends often dilute the core values of Islam and pull Muslims away from the truth. For the past 13 years, I have worked as a Software Developer, building interactive media applications for major Canadian and American brands across Android, iOS, and Smart TV platforms. Over the last three years, I have also ventured into digital marketing—leveraging the power of AI to help brands market themselves more efficiently and effectively. I'm an INTJ personality type—strategic, future-focused, and emotionally disciplined. I appreciate depth, structure, and clarity in all areas of life. I value order, but also creativity. I naturally prefer solitude or the company of a small, close-knit circle—mainly family and a few trusted friends. I avoid crowds and meaningless socialization. My ideal time is spent researching, reading, reflecting, sleeping, or indulging in a good video game. I also have a deep love for Islamic history, especially learning about the governance, culture, language, and cuisine of past Islamic civilizations—particularly Ottomans and Muslim Spain. I was born in the city of Mumbai and later moved to Canada during my teenage years to pursue higher education. I worked there for several years until I came to a clear realization: if I want to raise children with strong Islamic values, I cannot do it while living in liberal Western societies. The environment there is soaked in fahisha (degeneracy) that hasn’t just corrupted non-Muslims, but has sadly affected many Muslims as well. For this reason, I plan to settle my future family in a conservative Muslim society—a place where raising children upon deen, haya, and taqwa is still possible, insha’Allah. - Future Goals - 1) To build a strong, trustworthy, and intimate relationship with my wife—one rooted in loyalty, mutual respect, and deep emotional and intellectual connection. I want a wife who is not just a companion, but also my confidant and partner in both Dunya and Akhirah. 2) To raise righteous, God-conscious children in a proper Islamic environment, so they may grow to become flag-bearers of Islam, grounded in knowledge and action. As Allah says in the Qur’an: Let there arise out of you a band of people inviting to all that is good, enjoining what is right, and forbidding what is wrong, and those will be the successful. [Surah Aal-e-Imran 104]

I’m seeking a wife whose humility is at the core of her character and the hallmark of her personality. A woman whose character remains pure regardless of changes in circumstance—whether she is blessed with wealth, fame, power, or influence. A woman who stays grounded and sincere, never allowing material success to corrupt her soul. You are a grateful soul who lives in a constant state of shukr—gratitude—to Allah and to those who have helped you along your journey. You are fiercely loyal—first to Allah, and then to those who have entrusted you with their amanah (trust). You neither backbite nor betray your loved ones, and you do not abandon them in their hour of difficulty. You are the type of woman who will stand by her husband during the times of calamity when Allah may test us with the loss of wealth, health, children, or delayed outcomes despite years of effort. You respond to these tests not with complaints, but with steadfast patience, enduring loyalty, and a calm presence—offering both emotional and intellectual strength to your husband. You are someone who finds contentment in simplicity, someone who is charitable and generous with her wealth and affection, even when there’s not much to give. You understand that today’s luxuries may vanish tomorrow, and yet your internal richness remains. You embrace modesty—not just in dress but in lifestyle and demeanor—adapting to life’s seasons and trials with grace. You have a submissive and feminine nature, expressing it through compassion, nurturing, and gentleness. These are the qualities I deeply value and seek in a wife, insha’Allah: 1) A Sincere Student of Knowledge: You are someone who constantly pursues tarbiyah—spiritual and deen education—with the sincere intention of overcoming personal shortcomings and drawing closer to Allah. I am an intellectual person who is curious and loves to constantly learn and grow in knowledge that affect all areas of life especially learning knowledge on being an effective spouse and parent. And I want a wife who is curious and intellectual person who loves to read books, research and grow instead of being pretentious and content with what you already know. You understand that life is not about outward appearances or social media impressions, but about daily efforts to purify the heart and grow in character. 2) Qur’anic Reflection and Implementation: You don’t merely recite the Qur’an—you reflect on its meanings and strive to live by its guidance. You let its divine wisdom shape how you think, speak, and behave, using it as your primary lens for navigating life’s decisions. Your connection with the Qur’an is not seasonal or performative—it is personal, transformative, and ever-growing. 3) A Vision for Raising Righteous Offspring: One of my long-term goals in marriage is to raise righteous children, insha’Allah—sons and daughters who walk the path of fisabilillah as Da’ees and Da’iyyahs, as Allah commands: Let there arise out of you a band of people inviting to all that is good, enjoining what is right, and forbidding what is wrong, and those will be the successful. — [Surah Aal-e-Imran 104] This verse from the Surah of the Family of Imran outlines the very legacy I pray for in my future family. Such children are not raised through wishful thinking—they are the result of consistent du’a, intentional parenting, and shared vision between the mother and father. Both parents must be lifelong seekers of Islamic knowledge, maintaining a deep, daily relationship with Allah. 4) Wisdom (Hikmah) Over Mere Knowledge: Knowledge alone is not enough—it must be coupled with wisdom. Without hikmah, even the most profound knowledge can become misapplied or ineffective. It’s not about how many ijazahs (certifications) one holds, or how much of the Qur’an is memorized; rather, it’s about how deeply one reflects upon the Qur’an and how much of it is implemented in one’s life. As Umar ibn al-Khattab (RA) said: “Do not be impressed by how one recites the Qur’an—his recitation is merely speech. Instead, look to those who act according to it.” And he also said: “Do not judge a man by his prayer or fasting, but judge him by his truthfulness and wisdom.” True wisdom also involves questioning blind taqleed—meaning, not following parents, culture, or scholars blindly. Our ultimate loyalty is to the Qur’an and authentic Hadith. If any human opinion contradicts divine revelation, we side with Allah and His Messenger ﷺ, for no scholar or parent is infallible. 5) Regarding Polygyny: I am a polygynous man—not just because Allah has made it halal, but because I strive to uphold justice, I am financially capable, and I believe in preserving our history and tradition. I will never shy away from practicing polygyny, no matter how much the liberal secularist societies tries to ridicule this tradition or pressure us to abandon parts of our Deen. We live in a time where zina (fornication/adultery) is glorified, and polygyny—something halal and honorable—is demonized. Secular systems legalize affairs, mistresses, and open relationships while mocking the practice of marrying more than one woman in a lawful, dignified, and just manner. It’s a contradiction: Married men get away with sleeping around with girlfriends violating their marital bond because the secular law refuses to penalize adultery while the same secular law hypocritically bans and discourages lawful marriage through polygyny which actually ends up promoting adultery and degeneracy which is rampant in secular countries. In reality, secular law betrays women. It denies both the wife and the girlfriend the right to marital dignity or lawful protection. In contrast, Islam offers legal, emotional, and financial security for both co-wives under a divine system that promotes fairness, not exploitation. For context, My late father had two wives—my mother being the second. Alhamdulillah, he provided for both households equally and ensured a fair inheritance for all his children. From this personal example, I know that polygyny is not some outdated Hadith concept, as secularists often try to portray it. Rather, it is a living and practical Sunnah that, bi idhnillah, will continue to thrive as long as men remain just and sincere, as my father was. That said, I may not take four wives unless Allah wills. However, I do intend to marry more than one wife, insha’Allah, if Allah facilitates it. I believe in being honest and transparent from the beginning, and my future wife must understand and accept this. Polygyny requires women of spiritual maturity—those who are not governed by envy, insecurity, or scarcity thinking. I seek a wife who sees a co-wife not as a rival, but as a sister in Deen. She believes that barakah (blessings) increases when we live by Allah’s laws, not our ego. If you tend to be envious, easily triggered, or believe in the scarcity mindset (“there’s not enough love or time to go around”), then polygyny may not be right for you. But if you're someone who values sisterhood, loyalty, legacy, and divine justice over fleeting emotions or cultural expectations—then perhaps we are aligned. Above all, I seek a woman who respects her husband’s role as the head of the household and is willing to follow his lead, as Allah commands: “Men are the protectors and maintainers of women by right of what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend from their wealth. So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in the husband's absence what Allah would have them guard.” — [Surah Nisa 34] If this resonates with you, I invite you to share a detailed bio outlining your background, goals, and what you're looking for in a husband. Kindly include recent, clear face photos—so we both approach this with transparency. I also request you to take the MBTI personality test (e.g., on 16Personalities), which takes 2 minutes, and share your type. It helps gauge long-term emotional and communication compatibility. JazakAllahu khair