"and We have created you in pairs"
Al Qur'an 78:8
Is Shortage of Money Really Bad for your Marriage Life?
by Nisaar Nadiadwala

Financial storms cause 12 percent of divorces in the West, but surveys of Muslim divorces console us that this percentage is only 6, which is quite low, yet we must push it down further. In other wo...
Mama's Boy vs Devout Husband
by Nisaar Nadiadwala

A couple in my friend circle always fought, but both claimed that they love each other a lot. Therefore, in spite of fights none of the two ever thought of parting ways. One of the main allegations ...
The growth of Childless Society
by Nisaar Nadiadwala

I met a Muslim couple, whom I already knew, in one of that airport, waiting to catch a flight to New York. I wondered as to why they were still childless. The man replied that they were not ready fo...
Here is how a Divorced Family looks like
by Nisaar Nadiadwala

A man of 35 in Sweden, born and brought up in Pakistan, got married to a Pakistani girl in Sweden. After two kids, the couple got separated. They were not staying together for the past three years a...
Which way your child inclines towards? Real or Fake?
by Nisaar Nadiadwala

Aisha , Anas bin Malik and Ibn Abbas (Allah be pleased with them all)- these three companions of the Prophet (pbuh) were in their early teens when they started learning Religion from him. Before the...
Mama! Can you cut me shorter - the pain of an unmarried girl
by Nisaar Nadiadwala

A beautiful story, a heart opener, a soul pinching and the true face of society. A grown-up girl and the only daughter of her affectionate parents and grandparents, she was a jewel in the house, and...
The Bald and the Beautiful - Odd Couples Even Love
by Nisaar Nadiadwala

I was told about a family gathering and there was a couple where the husband was bald and his wife was beautiful. One of the seniors commented, "The Bald and the Beautiful". There was a roar of laug...
Is it a Supermarket of Grooms and Brides?
by Nisaar Nadiadwala

In one of the gatherings, I was approached by a friend who had a grown-up son, "There are no supermarkets of brides in my sight". I responded and parted with a decision never to discuss with him abo...
Leave and Let Live: Why Married Sons Should Stay Separate
by Nisaar Nadiadwala

A young Indian couple got married in Riyadh. The boy was brought up in Riyadh and the girl was a product of Mumbai's elite society. It was a beautifully paired couple when looks and personality were...
Addicted to Television! The Dangerous Non Mahram in Our Homes
by Nisaar Nadiadwala

Time is not wasted in hours and days.. but also in minutes and seconds regularly, and if you sum them up you will realise that you have wasted a lot of days and months! Just consider the amount of t...
Priceless Couples who never say "I Give Up"
by Nisaar Nadiadwala

The family is of four people. Two sons and a pair of parents. The difference is :There is a handicap son who cannot move. He is like a living vegetable. He is absolutely depended upon his parents......
Sabrun Jameelun!! A beautiful patience!!!! But why?
by Nisaar Nadiadwala

If you read verse 33 of Surah Yusuf, where Prophet Yusuf (as)  says: Jail is better than the sin they are inviting me too- and show it to the  Hollywood-Bollywood stars along with the...
Some Widespread Fears that are Destroying the Institution of Marriage
by Nisaar Nadiadwala

Helen Smith is an American writer who is working on her book called Men On Strike: Why Men Are Boycotting Marriage, Fatherhood, and the American Dream - And Why It Matters. She has interviewed men a...
Don’t Impose Loneliness upon Yourself; Don’t Die Before Your Death
by Nisaar Nadiadwala

In the Western Society, it is a very common trend that children of divorced parents find it difficult to adapt a new mom into their hearts. When I studied the comments compiled in surveys, I found a...
Re-Pairing Is Not As Risky As It Is Feared To Be
by Nisaar Nadiadwala

A friend of mine visited me with the heavyhearted news of his divorce. His wife had fallen for another man in her workplace. My friend was reluctant to start a fresh life. He said, “I fear the...
Un-healing wounds of verbal battles
by Nisaar Nadiadwala

When you are fighting with your spouse aggressively in the presence of your children then you are wounding your children too. The psychological wounds on the minds of the children are the biggest inju...
Akhlaaq : Weigh it Today Before Allah Weighs it on That Day
by Nisaar Nadiadwala

Among the heaviest deed in the weigh on the Day of Qiyamah will be Good Akhlaaq says the Sahih Hadith of Tirmidhi. You can understand Good Akhlaaq as character, nature, capacity to tolerate people's w...
Manage Your Anger Before It Manages You
by Nisaar Nadiadwala

In general, we may become angry or frustrated whenever we are not able to achieve a goal. Life is full of frustrations from minor irritations to something really big. When we use our frustration and a...